As we close to the top of summer season 2023, I’ve been reflecting lots on what these previous few months have meant to me. The massive factor this summer season has proven me is that it’s doable to be going by a tough, attempting interval and nonetheless discover a lot pleasure. It’s proven me that two issues can exist on the similar time. This realization has given me lots of confidence as I face what it means to become older—to have extra tasks and extra issues to fret about.
Even when a worst-case state of affairs occurs, I do know I nonetheless have so many great issues to be grateful for. A variety of that is due to privilege, but lots of it has come from making the selection to not surrender on the elements of life that matter most to me just because I’m consumed by concern. I may be afraid and nonetheless stand up every single day, transfer ahead, and stay life as totally as doable.
In the present day I’m recapping this summer season of transformation and sharing what the previous few months have regarded like in my life.
June was a very busy month. I did my greatest to assist my youngsters as college ended and so they moved into their summer season routines, whereas additionally attempting to navigate the ups and downs that got here with transitioning my enterprise and shutting a giant chapter with my workforce.
I felt actually numb all through lots of this month. In the course of June, we made the announcement that Wit & Delight can be evolving into a brand new chapter, and I had a full-on breakdown. I’ve by no means been extra scared. I had some actually tough conversations and I discovered that the one factor you are able to do when issues break down like that’s to have grace for everybody concerned. This time interval felt like an ego dying.
As I attempted to navigate by the modifications, I discovered intervals of pleasure within the in-between moments. On June 9, Joe and I went with a couple of mates to Chicago for the Useless & Firm live performance. I loved time in our new entrance yard. I introduced the 9 Pines design mission—one thing I’m so excited to be engaged on.
All through the month, I spent loads of time outdoors. I went to dinner events with mates, together with a stunning dinner hosted by Brooke Faudree. I walked so many miles and performed lots of tennis. Our household had a pizza night time at a close-by pizza farm. We went to the pool a ton. I ran within the rain with the children. We celebrated Joe as he began a brand new job.
July kicked off with an prolonged household trip in Hilton Head. I believed happening trip was going to imply I may totally unwind, however this was not the fact. I used to be confronted with lots of triggers from relations—one thing that was nobody’s fault. We simply fall into previous patterns generally. I felt lots of my success fall into query due to the alternatives I had made in June. I questioned my means to do that subsequent part alone. I considered getting a company job and setting this house apart fully. It was a complete “Who am I?” second.
This month, I began to get actually nervous about all the modifications I’d made with Wit & Delight. Summer season has at all times been a very sluggish time by way of incoming alternatives, however I didn’t know what this slowness would really really feel like this 12 months. The sensible a part of me knew these modifications wanted to occur however my ego undoubtedly didn’t take the quiet effectively. It was humbling, however one thing I wanted to face and begin to course of.
Amid all of this reflection and doubt, there have been some great highlights. I took some unbelievable morning walks at dawn. When Joe was out of city for work, I took the children out for pizza and ice cream. It felt actually significant to share these candy little moments with them.
I discovered the virtues of wide-leg slouchy trousers and located the proper little black gown, which I’ve worn 4 occasions already. I made my favourite potato salad recipe. I watched all of Wimbledon and noticed the Barbie film—even with all the hype main as much as it, I used to be nonetheless blown away. I learn Her Physique and Different Events by Carmen Maria Machado. It’s my favourite e book I’ve learn this 12 months to date. Her writing reignited the starvation in me to specific myself by phrases once more.
On July 9, I went to one in all my favourite eating places, Myriel, to have a good time their second anniversary. The meals was scrumptious and the house was stunning as at all times. On July 16, the celebrations continued as we threw August an epic seventh celebration within the yard.
On the work entrance, I obtained all the new Wit & Delight planners I designed for 2024. It was so enjoyable to see them in individual after the lengthy design course of. They’ll be in the stores beginning this fall! I additionally finalized lots of design particulars for the 9 Pines mission and shared some colourful design updates in our basement household room.
On the finish of July, we went as much as Lutsen for our annual journey with Joe’s facet of the household. I had the most effective sandwich on the drive up at Northern Waters Smokehaus. We ate plenty of good meals and spent loads of time outdoors. Yearly, I recognize the simplicity of this journey increasingly.
In August, readability started to emerge for me round the place I’m at with work and the content material I need to create, notably because it pertains to my publication, Home Name. I discovered myself feeling extra enthusiastic about what’s to come back and discovering it simpler to get right into a circulation state with work.
On August 1, I went to Goodwill and located an incredible set of canary yellow dishes. I’m so excited to entertain with them on numerous events to come back. Talking of entertaining… I additionally launched a line of tabletop linens this month! I love how all the patterned items turned out. You may store them now by September 13 on Etsy.
This month, we had a couple of epic afternoon thunderstorms and I cherished each second. Attending to expertise the combination of thunderstorms and lovely, sunny summer season days has been actually particular. I’m so grateful to have a mind that may entry such delight for each side of the spectrum.
On August 7, Birdie had surgical procedure to take away her tonsils and adenoids. The surgical procedure went effectively however the restoration was considerably tough. After every week or so, she was feeling so a lot better, and her respiratory and sleeping improved dramatically in comparison with pre-surgery.
On the studying entrance, I dove into Fourth Wing by Rebecca Yarros and cherished it a lot. I’ve discovered fantasy books to be such a constructive escape for me in occasions after I’m feeling adrift. It’s a lighter technique to assist me by tough occasions.
I performed tennis extra days of the week than not. The method of studying to play tennis has taught me lots about easy methods to have a extra trusting relationship with my physique. It’s taught me to stay calm, even in always altering circumstances, and to belief that I’ll know easy methods to react. On the courtroom and off, I’ve been studying lots of classes by the act of not giving up.
This summer season has felt completely different than summers previous. I’ve that twinge of melancholy that comes with the back-to-school season, but additionally a way of aid to be shifting on.
This summer season has felt completely different than summers previous. I’ve that twinge of melancholy that comes with the back-to-school season, but additionally a way of aid to be shifting on. Issues felt slower, heavier, and tougher than regular by many of the season. I stored fascinated with how I wanted to be in this house, not run away from it. Ultimately, I believe it was an actual reward to take issues slower and never attempt to numb the sophisticated mixture of happiness and unhappiness that drummed by the background of all our enjoyable summer season moments. I may be in the course of a very difficult time and nonetheless discover methods to convey pleasure to my life. I’m so grateful for that lesson.
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Kate is the founding father of Wit & Delight. She is at the moment studying easy methods to play tennis and is eternally testing the boundaries of her inventive muscle. Comply with her on Instagram at @witanddelight_.